Your ego is NOT your friend.
Your ego is kicking your ass when it comes to you actually making moves. When are you going to let your ego go so you can get to the right place in your life?
Ego destroys ANY forward progress. You may make a little bit of movement but you’ll NEVER make big time moves when your ego controls your decision making.
I had to learn this the hard way.
Let me tell you how I got over my ego and how this can help you create the happiness that you desire:
You don’t need to know everything about EVERYTHING before you start something new. One of the things that slowed me down THE MOST was thinking I needed to make the perfect decision or get the best ROI of everything that I do. My problem was that I wasn’t making enough moves because I paralyzed myself with the data.
Sometimes you need to just go for it and figure it out along the way. Analyze the data that you create with the moves you’ve made.
Sometimes you need to just go for it!
Be okay with making big ugly mistakes! If you’re not failing miserably, then you’re simply not moving the needle. Most people want to barely make any mistakes or they don’t want to make massive mistakes at all. But let’s be honest: if you’re not making big failures, you won’t create any large amounts of success.
Learn to fail on a bigger scale to create success on a larger scale.
Practice what you preach - OFTEN. There’s a lot of people that have advice for you but they don’t know how to take their own advice. Now why is that? How can you help someone with your advice but you’re UNWILLING to take your own advice.
Here’s the great equalizer in life: If you can’t take your own advice in life, you’ll NEVER be able to be AUTHENTIC with what you advise to people.
Don’t just talk about it, BE ABOUT IT.
Cheer other people on to succeed. If you can’t cheer other people on to succeed, don’t expect ANYONE to cheer you on to succeed. In fact, don’t be surprised if you find yourself in constant competition with others and how successful you are in comparison to them.
Learn to cheer others on and NOT because you’re looking for something in return but JUST BECAUSE. This is the hardest thing for most people to do because they think that other people’s success is in direct relationship to theirs. And it’s simply NOT TRUE.
Be a cheerleader for someone else and watch how others cheer you on to succeed for the same reasons!
Stay positive,
Fred
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